10. Nature of the beast, part II
Continuing our examination of what those students heading your way are like…
This one is very important: they are no better at groups than regular students. In fact, they’re probably worse. Think about it: when you assign a group project, whose is the first hand in the air? It’s the gifted kid, asking if she can do it on her own.
The reason is obvious, of course: when they’re “stuck” in a group, they’re the ones who have to do all the work, either because their team mates don’t do the work, or often, because the work their team mates do is not “acceptable.”
This aspect goes hand in hand with our next item: they are opinionated and more than willing to share their opinions. Everything is a debate, an argument, and they are going to win. (This is the main reason why we do not use competition as an instructional strategy in the classroom.)
So if you want them working in groups—and you do—then you’re probably going to have to monitor and model cooperation and division of labor. You will have to teach them how to discuss a topic, not debate it. Watch for, and take care of, the quiet ones.
Finally, and probably most importantly, look out for the impostor syndrome. That’s the still, small voice in the back of everyone’s brain that is always whispering, “What if you’re not really as smart or talented as everyone thinks you are? What if they find out you’re a fraud?”
In gifted people, that voice is a little stronger than in most people’s heads, and when the kids arrive on campus, that voice is roaring to the point that some can’t hear anything else. (You’re probably hearing it a bit yourself!)
This syndrome manifests itself in a couple of ways. You may see the kid who decides to hide: he won’t offer any ideas, he hesitates to share, he sits back and watches. He is simply not going to expose himself as the ungifted idiot that he surely is. (And for a brilliant look at this very phenomenon, see this essay.)
Another manifestation is the kid who decides to go on the offensive and prove to you that not only is he gifted, he’s the most gifted kid in the room. He will answer all your questions, he will correct his peers, he will correct you.
Just be aware of what’s prompting these behaviors and be prepared to gently assist those students who exhibit them. By Thursday, nearly every kid has figured out that he does belong and is as happy as a clam.
By Thursday, you should have figured out basically the same thing. Welcome to GHP!